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Most guys choose either Daygame or Nightgame, very few have the ability to do both, some do, but it’s rare. Nightgame is difficult for men over 35 years old, but taller men can survive longer in the nightclubs, perhaps slightly over 40 yrs old.

The best night gamers have one wingman, and these two partner up every night they hit the clubs. Team work is the key to being motivated and longevity in night game.

From my own experience, I’ve seen many guys get into pickup. I’ve watched them come in, take massive action, hit a plateau, some leave pickup for good, others have long term success. lets discuss the differences between the guys who survive in game and the one’s who end up leaving and how this is related to learning how to pickup girls in nightclubs.

The last year and a half, since the global pandemic kicked in, this has put a major end to most nightclubs and bars around the world. So many successful nightclubs have decided to use this time to renovate, though there is a huge amount that have closed their doors for the last time.

Where has this left all the guys who have worked hard on their nightgame as their preferred method to meet women, well, it’s left them out in the cold, looking for other ways to fill that void, which means that they’ve moved online.

Nightclubs Have Minimum Requirements

Minimum requirements for success in a nightclub :

• Above the average height for the club
• Good looking (dressing well can help this)
• Under 30 years old (taller you are, the longer you can last)
• Of a desired racial background (changes depending on the nightclub)

Nightgame, as I mentioned in the first paragraph, works best for guys under 30 years old, over a certain height (perhaps 5,10+ maybe taller, depending on the average height in the nightclub) and are good looking. Once you have met these basic requirements, then you need to work on having beginner level nightgame skills in order to get laid.

Again. Once you meet the minimum requirements, you only need beginner level game to get laid, don’t believe the hype, it’s only perpetuated by kids with huge egos.

Picking Up During Night-game Is Easy

• Acclimatise to the environment
• Bad verbal’s are fine (she can’t hear you anyway, plus she’s drinking)
• Approach Girls (Yeah it’s basic stuff)
• Find a good wing who’s dedicated

Any pick up coach can get you to beginner level in a nightclub within a one weekend bootcamp. To start with, getting used to the loud and chaotic environment can take a while to acclimatise to, this will happen with exposure. You may find yourself going to the bathroom every now and then, to gather your thoughts and recharge, it’s only natural for this to happen.

Nightclubs are loud, so girls cannot hear you talk, that’s an advantage if your verbal’s suck, not to mention she is most probably on her second drink anyway, so she’s less likely to judge you for saying stupid things.

Approach girls, yeah it’s not exactly rocket science. In the beginning, the club will look like it’s utter chaos, but after a while you’ll turn into a machine who can see everything.

It reminds me of seeing a robot acquiring targets from their point of view, you will learn to spot 2 sets, 3 sets, larger group sets, mixed sets, which girls are taken and which one’s are single. After a while the entire nightclub will make perfect sense, but this may take upwards of 6 months hardcore nightgame dedication. Burn the club down until you find a ”yes girl”, simple.

Find a wing who’s dedicated, hopefully he’s around the same height and demographics as you. If he’s way taller, then he’ll get the attention of both girls you approach, unless you have advanced game.

Even then, he’ll eventually get all the attention. The only solution to this, is if he is socially aware enough to display lower value than you, for the greater good of the team. But then, he really should be finding himself a taller better looking wing, to help himself get the absolute best girls in the club he could possibly get.

Ultimately, working together as a team, having hand signals, facial signs, pretty much being on another level with your wing, that you can almost read each others mind’s in the nightclub, is the level you want to be at.

Night-Gamers Have The Biggest (Unearned) Egos

Not all nightgamers are egotistical, most are cool guys that are grounded. Some are absolute assholes, don’t be one of these guys. Be humble. Keep your respect for others.

As I said above, it’s easy to get laid in the nightclub as long as you have at least beginner level game. Most pick up coaches should be able to get you there within one weekend BootCamp.

It’s not like you are gaining a PhD is it, now this is where the problems arise, a guy who’s just starting to get some success, will get an ego boost.

This ego boost from getting laid will go to his head fast, it will affect most guys in pick up, a guy will be a virgin one or two months ago, now he’s comparing himself to experienced guys who have been in game for years, sometimes his ego will make him talk shit about other guys.

Guys Who Specialise in NightGame Often Have Substance Abuse Problems

• Needing alcohol to approach
• Many girls who club, use drugs
• All types of substances are in Nightclubs

There are many nightgame coaches who have fallen off the edge, due to substance abuse. Years of being in the nightclubs being surrounded by people who are constantly drunk or on drugs, it takes someone with a superhuman amount of self control to be able to avoid slipping into a life filled with substance abuse.

Quite often it starts with them having a day, when they don’t feel like being social, then they use just a small drink to boost their mood, it does work in the beginning. Next time they have 2 drinks and so on. Before they know it, they cannot function in the nightclub without taking something.

The guys who have approach anxiety in the beginning are more likely to develop these addictions as they will use drugs or alcohol to help them get into ”state”. Most of these guys can never enter a club sober and take the required action, so they end up drinking every time. These guys end up crashing eventually, and it ends their nightgame career.

Putting All Your Eggs in the Nightclub Basket is Risky

• Nightgamer specialists struggle with Daygame
• Unforeseen problems
• Work and Study

It’s widely known that guys who specialise in nightgame have a hard time doing daygame, it’s a totally different skill. They often come across uncalibrated. Their verbal’s are that of a high school teenagers and therefore they find it difficult to pivot to daygame.

As we’ve all seen recently, so many things can go wrong. The last year has been awful for nightgamers, especially during the global pandemic (covid 19). This is definitely an unforeseen problem for night gamers.

What if you were one of these guys, you put all your effort into night game and this happened, then you can only take the natural move to online dating.

The long term negative effects on a person’s career and results at university can be quite damaging to their future. Imagine that the only way for you to meet girls, is to stay up until a minimum of 3am or later on a Saturday night.

You would be tired every Monday morning at work or Uni. It’s easy to see why guys don’t last long doing nightgame, it’s not something that can be called a lifestyle, unless your a crackhead, drug dealer or total degenerate who’s unemployed.

Have a Diversified Strategy to Meeting Women

Sure, you can continuously hit the night clubs on a semi regular basis, maybe once a month or 6 weeks. This can be sustainable over a long period of time, but what are you going to do in-between?

Well of course you can go online and taking photo’s for my clients online dating profiles is something that comes with the service, but you need more. And in my opinion, learning daygame is the most effective way to improve your success in the long term. I suggest you get some live training with myself so you can get off on the right foot.

What’s your experience with nightgamers?

Here are some of my best posts:

• Cold approach is a lifestyle (My Philosphy)
• What is indirect daygame
• What I say to Girls (Logistics)
• How to Write a PickUp field report
• How to spot a fake dating coach
• How I got laid in Japan (epic post)
• Why Thailand is NO longer good for getting laid

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